What is SC Happenings?
        
        Southern Charms Happenings is the place where you can go to
        see the Southern Charms and Southern Gents spotlighted in an article or
        interview.  The interview will contain more personal information
        about the individual Charm or Gent than would normally appear on their
        individual Southern Charm or Southern Gent page and will always have an accompanying
        photo shoot.  The articles usually tell the story about the
        particular photo shoot that it accompanies.  Sexy and funny things
        do happen during these shoots and I try to bring it all to you in words
        and pictures. 
        
        What do I get for joining SC Happenings?
        
        Well that is a simple one.  You get several
        benefits.  The first of which is that unless a Charm or Gent leaves
        Southern Charms or Southern Gents their photos here on the Happenings
        pages will always remain available.  The articles and preview
        photos always remain in the free area no matter how many articles are on
        Happenings.  Secondly, Happenings is a
        convenient location to go to preview some of the Charms and Gents prior
        to joining their sites.  It helps you get to know them better
        before you make the decision to join their individual sites. 
        Thirdly, the Charms and Gents go all out to provide a special set of
        photos for the Happenings pages.  In some cases, poses and activity
        can be seen in Happenings that up
        until that point has never even appeared on their own sites. 
        
        Why
        is there a membership fee to join Happenings?
        
        Another simple one.  I have to travel all over to
        do the interviews and take the photographs that you see here on Southern
        Charms Happenings.  As anyone knows who has ever taken a trip there
        are expenses when you travel.  In some cases the Charm who I am
        doing a shoot for will offer me the hospitality of their home, but over
        half the time I have to pay for a motel/hotel room plus all other
        related travel and food expenses. 
        
        If I join Happenings
        does that mean I get membership to the individual Charm's or Gent's
        sites who appear on Happenings as well?
        
        No!!!  Every site on Southern Charms requires a
        separate membership fee including Happenings.  However, one
        membership fee for Happenings does give you access to all the photos on
        Happenings no matter how many Charms or Gents are spotlighted.  There is only one membership area in Happenings and all
        the Charms and Gents appearing in the Articles and Interview pages are
        available in the Happenings' Membership Area for one membership fee.  All the
        Charms' and Gents' photos will always be there for your viewing and
        downloading pleasure unless they leave Southern Charms.  The reason
        the photos are pulled if a Charm or Gent leaves Southern Charms is they
        sign a licensing agreement which allows Southern Charms to make
        available their photos only as long as the Charm or Gent allows
        it.   Some do allow me to keep their photos on Happenings even
        if they close their site on Southern Charms.  That is why you may occasionally
        see a Charm or Gent with photos on Happenings but no link to their site.
        
        
        I have seen ads or been contacted by a
        photographer who says they represent or work for Southern Charms and are
        doing photos for them or Happenings.  Are they real?
        
          
          As Southern Charms and Southern Charms Happenings have 
          become more popular this has become a problem.  We are aware that some 
          photographers and other companies have placed ads advertising for 
          amateur models to appear on the web.  Some of these are legitimate 
          endeavors and we commend the "get up and go attitude" of these 
          photographers.  They say that they have an association with a number 
          of Adult oriented web sites and that they can help you get a site up 
          and running.  Normally, they will charge you a fee which is a 
          percentage of the money you make from having a site on Southern Charms 
          (or for that matter any other site they get you on).  Although this is 
          acceptable for those who want to use them it is not necessary in most 
          cases.  If you do decide to use one of these photographers, I 
          recommend that you contact Southern Charms (or any other web site they 
          may put you on) and verify the payment rate you have been given by the 
          photographer or other company.  The current rate being paid to 
          new Charms and Gents by Southern Charms is 50% of the gross income 
          from their site.
          There has been at least one case that I am aware of 
          where the photographer told the Charm that he was getting less than 
          Southern Charms was actually paying.  He then charged a 
          percentage of that amount before paying the Charm for "taking the 
          photographs and submitting them to Southern Charms."  That means 
          that he took a cut right off the top and then took an additional 
          percentage from the amount he told the Charm he was getting paid by 
          Southern Charms.
          Another example is a company saying that they 
          represent Southern Charms and that you have to work through them to 
          get photos submitted for your site on Southern Charms.  This is 
          not a true statement.  Any Charm or Gent is welcome to work 
          through a company that works like this example, but you should be 
          aware that they are not part of Southern Charms and they are wrong if 
          they represent themselves as such.  You should also be aware that 
          you can always work directly with Southern Charms and there is never a 
          requirement that you go through a photographer or other company.  
          Also, be sure and read the info below about signing a contract with 
          these photographers or other companies.
          My recommendation is that you contact Southern Charms 
          directly and that you do your own photographs.  Digital cameras are 
          not that expensive now.  I am sure that in most cases you will have no 
          trouble finding a willing photographer to take the pictures or you can 
          use one of the many cameras that now come with a remote.  
          At any rate, if you do decide to use a third party 
          photographer you can either contact me, 
			Lord Hardcore, or
          info@southern-charms.com 
          for the current payment rates and procedures.  Just because they 
          helped you get on Southern Charms doesn't mean that you can't carry on 
          a direct dialog with Southern Charms.  In fact, if they try to 
          persuade you not to contact Southern Charms then I would be suspicious 
          of their motives.  
          Another thing that you should be very aware of is the 
          contract.  Make sure that you only sign the official contract for 
          Southern Charms.  If you want a copy you can e-mail either of the two 
          addresses above and request one.  Under the Southern Charms contract 
          and model release you always own the copyrights to your photographs 
          and no other use can be made of those photographs without your 
          consent.  That may not be the case with a contract done by a 
          photographer or company.  Any conditions in a separate contract with 
          the photographer should only pertain to the amount of money that 
          he/she will receive, but not to the copyrights or ownership of the 
          photos.  If you sign over copyrights or ownership to the photos then 
          they can do whatever they please with those photos.  This could 
          include placing them on sites that you are unaware of or putting them 
          on CDs and selling them without you getting a cut of the profits.  
          Additionally, they could deny you the right to use those photographs 
          elsewhere or even on Southern Charms if you decided to work directly 
          with us instead of through a photographer or another company.
          Some of the photographers are not legitimate at 
          all.  A few have represented themselves as working for Southern 
          Charms.  This is NOT true.  Southern Charms does NOT have an official 
          photographer or another company acting on their behalf.  I am the 
          closest there is to an official photographer for Southern Charms that 
          exists.  I do all my photography work for Southern Charms and Southern 
          Charms Happenings on a contract basis and not as an employee.  I, of 
          course, run SC Happenings from which I get income from the 
          memberships.  Even though I do a lot of updates for some of the 
          Charms, I never charge them anything for those sessions.  One pretty 
          safe way to deal with a photographer is by writing to either me at 
			Lord Hardcore or 
          Southern Charms at 
          info@southern-charms.com and verifying the photographer.  Be aware 
          that some Charms and Gents have Southern-Charms.com e-mail addresses, 
          but that does not make them an official representative for Southern 
          Charms as a photographer or otherwise.  Additionally, Southern 
          Charms does not issue SC e-mail accounts any longer.
          The last item to be covered under this topic is 
          probably the most important.  We know of a couple of cases where the 
          photographer or representatives of another company have put sexual 
          favors from the Charm as a condition for them to appear on or have a 
          site on Southern Charms.  This is never tolerated by Southern Charms.  
          Southern Charms doesn't do this nor do I.  There are never any 
          conditions or requirements other than those stated in your contract 
          and release with Southern Charms and it will never contain any such 
          condition.  If this ever happens to you please get all the 
          identification information about the photographer or company that you 
          can and notify either Southern Charms at
          
          william@southern-charms.com or myself at 
			Lord Hardcore 
          immediately.  
          
        
        I
        am a Charm or Gent.  How can I appear on the Happenings pages?
        
        Write to me and request a photo shoot and interview.  The
        closer you are to the southeast the quicker I can get to your area for a
        shoot.  If you live a long way away from the southeast then read here
        for another option. 
        
        Once I request an interview and photo
        shoot with you, what happens next and what do I get for it?
        
        Once I receive a request for an interview and a photo
        shoot I will work out a convenient time and place for us to get together
        to do the shoots.  Usually it is in your home, but other locations
        have been used as well.  Of course we can always shoot at multiple
        locations as well.  If there are additional costs associated with
        the shoot such as special costumes or locations such as a motel with a
        Jacuzzi, you are responsible for those extra expenses.
        I
        also encourage you to bring someone along with you to the shoots. 
        This usually makes everyone feel more comfortable.  Plus, if they
        are your usual photographer we can talk about tips that will help make
        your own photo sessions better.  I also like it when they help
        direct the shoots as they know you much better and are able to direct
        you in a manner that helps keep your comfort level high.
        I
        like to set aside anywhere from two to four hours for the photo
        sessions.  I like to do at least three sessions, but I have been
        known to shoot many more.  In one case I shot ten different sets,
        but usually it is from three to six sets.  I get to pick one set to
        be used along with your interview or article on Southern Charms
        Happenings.  You get to keep all the other sets for your own
        use.  Use is restricted to your site here on Southern Charms. 
        The set that I pick for use on Happenings is exclusive to
        Happenings.  This means that the photos appearing in Happenings
        cannot appear on your Southern Charms site, but any of the other photos
        that I take can be used on your site.
        You do not need a
        separate model release for these photo sessions.  Your current
        Southern Charms contract covers everything.  That provides you with
        protection.  Without a separate model release I cannot use your
        photos for any other purpose which means that you won't see them
        appearing on any other web site or on a CD offered for sale, etc. 
        The only exception to this is that I will pick two of the photos used in
        the free area on Happenings which are then "branded" with the
        URL for Southern Charms Happenings and your page here on
        Happenings.  These two photos are then distributed for advertising
        purposes to bring more traffic to both Happenings and your site.
        There
        will never be any other use of your photos unless we both specifically
        agree to that use (you as the model and me as the photographer). 
        An example of this is the request by one of the Charms to use six of the
        photographs that I took to submit to Penthouse
        magazine to see if she can appear in it.  If you would like to
        use any of the photos that I take for any purpose other than on Southern
        Charms just ask and we will see what we can work out.  As long as
        they aren't to be used on a competitor's site I am usually willing to
        work something out with you.  You also need to remember that any
        other use of any photos is governed by your contract with Southern
        Charms in which you give exclusive license to Southern Charms to the
        photographs appearing there.  Another words, any photos used for
        another purpose or on another site have to be extra photos that do not
        appear on Southern Charms or Happenings.
        NOTES:  Photos used on Happenings will not be removed automatically if you leave Southern Charms.  
        I give you access to the Happenings membership area and you will continue to have access even if you leave Southern Charms 
        as long as you do not have your Happenings update removed.  I will remove the individual Happenings update if you 
        request that it be removed.  I will also delete your access from the login file.
        Additionally, if you participate in a Bash and there are photos appearing in a Bash update those photos 
        will not be removed even if you remove your site from Southern Charms unless there is a specific important reason and I 
        will look at the request on a case-by-case basis.  The reason for this is that it just takes too long to go through 
        all the Bash updates and try and find individual photos amongst all the photos taken during a weekend long event.
        I have a shoot scheduled for
        Happenings.  What can I expect during the shoot and what type of
        poses am I suppose to do?
        
          Hopefully, you can expect to have a good time.  I
          think that has been the general experience of all the Charms and Gents
          with whom I have done photo shoots.  You are, of course, always
          welcome to write to any of the Charms and Gents who have appeared or
          are scheduled to appear (normally, once their thumbnail goes up on the
          Upcoming Page the shoot has been completed) on
          Happenings and get their views on both the shoots and the
          experience.
          Now, as
          to the type of poses your are suppose to do.  There aren't
          any!!!  You choose the poses and content for all shoots. 
          You are not expected to do anything or provide any particular type of
          content, etc.  These are your shoots, not mine.  You do what
          you feel comfortable doing.  I will give an occasional suggestion
          and let you know what helps appeal to your fans, but you have last say
          on what will end up in each and every photograph.
          I
          know that when I arrive for a shoot the Charm or Gent usually already
          has a pretty good idea as to what they want to do during the
          sessions.  A lot of the ideas have been given to them by their
          fans and this is a good opportunity to get those ideas captured in
          photographs.  I always look for that special shoot to present
          here in Happenings along with the interview and stories about the
          shoots.  Of course, this helps me with Happenings, but also gives
          that special appeal to your viewers here on Happenings that get them
          to want to go visit your site on Southern Charms.  A special
          shoot can consist of one or several things that make it special. 
          Those "things" can be anything from the circumstances under
          which the photos were taken to something funny that happened during
          the shoot to content that has never appeared on your site
          before.  Take a look at some of the interviews and articles and I
          think that you will see exactly what I mean.
          A general
          rule is that the more explicit a shoot is the better it is received by
          your fans.  If you don't believe me, just ask them? ;-) 
          (Note to fans:  Just trying to help you out here.)  All that
          said, you choose what we shoot during the photo sessions along with
          some possible suggestions, but never any pressure from me. 
          Bottom line, you pose how you want to pose and you pick the content
          that is represented in each and every shoot. 
        
        I have decided to do some shoots with
        you and I want to included a partner in the shoots.  Is that okay?
        
          Yes, of course, it is.  If the partner is a
          Charm or Gent or individual who has already appeared in one of your
          shoots and has a release on file then nothing further needs to be done
          as they already have a release filed with Southern Charms that will cover
          the shoots.  If they are not a Charm or Gent or do not already
          have a release on file with Southern Charms then they must be willing
          to provide a Guest Model Release along with the required photo IDs
          (the same as you had to do) to appear in the photographs and on
          Happenings.  The Guest Model Release is required whether their
          face is shown or not.
Actually, the desire to have a partner
          appear in a shoot with a Charm or Gent is one of the primary reasons I
          get requests for photo sessions with a Charm or Gent.  Usually
          they have no one else who is available or who they trust to take the
          photographs and/or they are just tired of trying to get a good set of
          photos while trying to "perform" and snap photos at the same
          time.
During these shoots of a Charm or Gent along with
          their partner I try not to be intrusive in the actual
          "performance."  I try to capture all the good angles to
          show the activity which the fans want to see without disturbing you
          any more than I have to.  You may feel a slight tap on an arm or
          a leg during the shoot so you can shift a little for a good shot but
          other than that I try not to let you be aware that I am even
          there.  The results are usually great and you end up with a photo
          session that you haven't been able to achieve previously.
          When
          we shoot with a partner or partners I always shoot loads of
          photographs.  Usually in the range of 150-250 shots.  I like
          to pick a few to use on Happenings (normally no more than about 30 or
          40) to do a bonus update on Happenings to coincide with the update
          going up on your site.  This is usually a good way to generate
          extra traffic to your site for that update and along with that comes
          new fans who will hopefully start making regular visits to your
          Southern Charms or Gents site and better yet, even become a member.
          
        
        I want to do a shoot with or meet with
        another
        Charm or Gent.  Can you set me up with them?
        
          Yes and no.  Just the type of answer you love.
          I
          don't set up Charms and Gents with each other.  I get this
          request all the time.  What I will do is notify you if another
          Charm or Gent in your area has already asked me the same
          question.  I will let both of you know of the other's interest in
          meeting another Charm and/or Gent then it is up to the both of you to
          get in touch with each other and make whatever arrangements you like.
          When
          I do this please do not take it as a recommendation that this is the
          Charm and/or Gent for you to meet.  I do not want to be blamed if
          you do not get along.  I am only letting you know that there is
          someone else in your area who is also interested in meeting other
          Charms and/or Gents with no other endorsements.
          Please
          do not get upset with me when I tell you that I don't know if other
          Charms and/or Gents live in your area.  I do not
          have access to the Charm/Gent database due to privacy
          concerns.  I only know information about a Charm or Gent if the
          Charm or Gent has chosen to provide that information to me.  I
          respect that trust and will not give out addresses or phone numbers,
          but will provide the fact that they are interested in meeting with
          other Charms and/or Gents.  You can then go to their site and
          send them an e-mail.  There is also a Discussion Board for Charms and Gents
          where you can post notices of your desire to meet other
          Charms and/or Gents.  This is a secure area only
          available to Charms and Gents and not open to the general
          public.  That way you are able to list where you live, etc.
          for contact information.  Contact me for SC Admin Area
          Registration information to get access to the Discussion Board.
          Of course, if you do meet and decide to get
          together, you can always call on me to come document the meeting in
          words and photographs ;-). 
        
        I am a Charm or Gent and live in an
        area where you haven't visited and I would like to know if you accept
        photos and articles for use in Happenings?
        
         There are over 700 Charms and Gents currently on Southern
        Charms & Gents and it would be physically impossible to visit all of
        them.  Of course the ones who live the closest get more
        opportunities for shoots and articles.  Because of this, I will
        accept quality photos directly from Charms and Gents for use in
        Happenings.  I tend not to accept photos from Charms or Gents who live in an area where a bash has recently been held 
        or if one is planned within the coming calendar year.  I prefer shooting the Happenings updates at bashes whenever 
        possible.
 Once
        you submit the photos and they have been accepted for inclusion on
        Happenings I will send you an interview sheet via e-mail for you to fill
        out (or if you prefer, you can write a story to go along with your
        shoot).  Since I cannot physically visit everyone this
        is the only fair way that I could come up with to allow all the Charms
        and Gents an opportunity to be spotlighted on Happenings. 
        Submissions will be placed on Happenings as the viewers select them on
        the Pick the Next Update Page.
If you want an article to appear on Happenings
        other than the standard interview you will be responsible for writing
        the article if I am not the one to do the shoot.  The article will
        appear as you submit it, but I will run a spelling and grammar checker
        on it and make those necessary changes.  You are always welcome, in
        fact, encouraged to submit the stories that go along with your photo
        shoots that you submit to Happenings.
        I get final say on
        who appears on Happenings once you submit photos, but it is opened to
        all Charms and Gents who have current contracts with Southern
        Charms.  I will not reject a submission for Happenings unless the
        photo quality is just too low.  If that happens I will let you know
        what you need to do to take and submit acceptable photos.  I will
        not accept any photos done with a video capture or ones that are less
        than 800 pixels on the long side.  I also will only accept photos which have
        not been cropped (another words - full frame only).  Other photos
        that will be unacceptable are ones that have had borders added. 
        Additionally, any photos submitted for use on the Happenings pages
        cannot be used on your Southern Charms site or any other site.  The
        photos must be exclusive to Happenings.  You do retain ownership of
        the images and the contract/release with Southern Charms governs their
        use.
Anyone appearing in a photo with you who is not a Charm or Gent must
        also submit a guest model release for Southern Charms if they don't
        already have one on file.  If you don't know where to find the
        release please write and let me know and I will give you the URL to
        download it. 
        
        Can I appear on SC Happenings even if I am
        not a Charm or Gent?
        
        Yes, but you will have to sign a model release and
        provide two forms of identification, one of which must be a government issued
        ID such as a state drivers license.  In most cases, when I get this
        question it is from someone who is considering having their own Southern
        Charms site and they are the ones who get priority.  If you like,
        you can have your own e-mail address included with the article and
        photos to get feedback prior to making the final decision to have your
        own site on Southern Charms. 
        
        Do I get paid for appearing
        in Happenings?
        
        No, but if you are a Charm or Gent you will get the
        benefit of being spotlighted and thereby having the potential of getting
        more traffic and new members for your own site.  If you are not a Charm or Gent the
        answer is still no, but you will get to see what it is all about and get
        feedback prior to making the decision to start your own site on Southern
        Charms. 
        
        How do I get in touch with or e-mail a
        Charm or Gent?
        
        You can write to them using the e-mail link on each of
        their pages.  You can't reach them using the e-mail links here on
        Happenings as they all direct mail to me and I just don't have time to
        forward all of them.  Besides, I don't think my ass looks all that
        great and I don't even have tits and some of you who have said that you
        "would like to lick me" would be in for a real surprise if you
        tried.  Another words, if you want to write to an individual Charm
        or Gent, please visit their page and use the e-mail link that you will
        find there.  There is always an e-mail link to them in the header
        of each and every one of their pages. 
        
        I want to know more about a particular
        Charm or Gent, will you tell me?
        
           I
        don't give out personal information on any of the Charms or Gents. 
        If it is not given in their interview or article or on their site's FAQ
        or Bio Pages then they evidently don't want that information given out
        to the public.  Again, if you want to write to an individual Charm
        or Gent then use the e-mail link on their pages.  Who knows, once
        they get to know you better they may tell you what you want to know.